I just asked the guy I’m dating (who I really like) what is body count is and I’m shocked - it’s super high....how do I not act weird now?

Guys please suggest which company should i join
Optum(UHG) - 16.7fixed + 2.3 variable pay
IBM - 16.5 fixed + 1.5 Joining bus
YOE- 6 yrs
Skill set - Java, springboot, microservice
~TIA

I was recently offered a role in Data Engineering from Pattern Pune. There is not much information available online hence would appreciate if someone has 1st hand reviews or feedback about the company and culture.

I really enjoy consulting. But I'm having to get out of it 😩
I really do. Enjoy the challenges. I don't mind the traveling and the perks of being upgraded, getting all the miles for personal use. I don't work 60hrs/wk. Enjoy meeting new clients, the whole thing.

BUT, for me, family comes first. A traveling job is incompatible with the desire I have to devote the time and energy I want to give, every day, to my wife and kids.
I'm bummed, but that's life...

Does anyone have an idea on what salary should be expected when applying to a major biotech company (GSK, Novartis, J&J, AbbVie etc...) as an entry level (3 years experience) Pharmacology & Toxicology master degree with an emphasis in Drug Discovery and Development with technical expertise in electrophysiology/neuroscience domain (several published papers on sodium channels) ?

Does anyone just find it…really difficult to work when you hate what you do?? I’m a first year in corporate and I’ve started saying no to work even though my hours are low just because I can’t stand it. Everyone around me acknowledges that the job sucks but seems to push through it and so I’m probably just a weak baby. Im also actively applying to other jobs that I want to do more, but after being reasonably successful up until this point it’s throwing me for a loop that I can’t buckle down

Hi Folks,
Anyone working for client logrythm?

Head hunter season has officially kicked off. Recruiters started to fill up my LinkedIn email last night. 10-16 was brutal and they know it.

Do leaders/managers judge/care if you leave for a similar role at another firm if you only worked there less than 2 years?

How much is the Walmart senior key account manager compensation in India ?

Hi fishes,
I am looking for remote opportunities in SDET QA Automation. Please let me know if there are opportunities at your company!!!
YOE : 4

Tip to everyone. Learn to ignore feedback that either isn't useful or is from someone you don't respect. Don't stew, or think about how it's unfair. You're work and life will improve

"Do you think he's gay?"

8.3 YOE, Business Analyst designation, Joined wipro now with 26.5+1lakh JB, Thinking to make switch after a year, however that woud be my 5th switch then in 9.3 years. Have genuine reasons for 2 company switches though 1 left for full time MBA and another delayed salaries by 3 months. Whats your thought?

Hi! Can anyone share gift ideas for a supervisor?

Context: During a team meeting, my supervisor/manager mentioned she'll be OOO a few days next week to step away from work and strategize on a couple of projects she's leading. She has a lot on her plate but still always so caring and helpful.

So fortunate to have a wonderful boss (black woman!) and plan on connecting with my team to discuss a small gift we can chip in to get her to help her relax while OOO, serve as a small thank you as well.

Needed a new roof and hired a carpenter. He stops by my office to pick up paperwork and asks me about my retirement plans. I find out he has about a million in his 401k.

Who has recommendations for upskilling in content development for seminars and conferences? I can work a proposal deck and story well, but am transitioning into more thought leadership and larger audiences which feels so different. (Cont’d)

Do you ladies ever feel guilty when you’re unwell? I’ve not been well the last few days and had to stay home. My leadership have actually been great about it but somehow I still feel guilty!

I need to vent. I’m not getting any younger (32) & I’d like to meet someone who actually wants something real - shocker that’s hard to do in NYC let alone Covid. A few weeks ago I met a really attractive guy while selling something on fb marketplace (an organic connection in 2020 - what??) & we exchanged numbers as he suggested we hang out due to being neighbors/similar interests. Well last night we finally hung out & I had a great time but after a couple drinks & some making out he made it

I absolutely hate this job and dread every Monday. Any suggestions on exit opportunities?

Any book recos for dating someone with anxiety? Also open to tips as well? In an LTR and my partner falls into deep periods of anxiety and takes sometime to get him back. Weighs on me sometimes but I love him so here we are. I’m in therapy myself so that helps but interested in understanding anxiety more.

Can anyone suggest a high quality shampoo and conditioner to use for thin and color treated hair? I would love something that keeps my hair from looking frail and isn’t filled with chemicals.

Do most people return items or just keep? My SO infuriates me. He would rather keep an item that he bought than return it even if it’s damaged/dislikes, etc. I said that most people return items that aren’t a good fit and he started going off on how I don’t have data to back that assertion. It seems obvious to me.

Guidance needed: I am a mother to a 10month old. Before going on ML, I was staffed on a project which was a stretch role and successfully delivered the project in spite of politics within teams and fellow team leads shrugging their responsibility. The leadership on the project was supportive and told me I was performing at high standards at check-in. At YE I received ratings which were not in sync. I am disappointed at the lack of transparency and feeling jaded about pushing myself at work

Both of my partners were diagnosed with cancer yesterday. BOTH of them. The diagnosis is not good for either, but particularly bad for my dad. My mom is starting chemo but my dad is unfortunately not a candidate due to concerns if he can handle it. I am traveling tomorrow to be with them and show support. What are some care packages I can bring (that do not involve food due to their restricted diets). Normally I’d be able to put these together but my mind doesn’t work currently. Much appreciated

Ladies- Truly need opinion how to better our situation.Husband and I have known each other for over a decade .I am 5 feet 1 inch, about 129 pounds and he comments on me being overweight every single day. I feel so irritated because he comments at every meal. He is a great dad , our kiddo is on spectrum and he is a v supportive parent. But as a spouse; places his emotions and persona superior, emotionally stone walls, silent treatments are his thing instead of discussing issues to resolution

Anyone else wanna sit in the client bathroom and cry but you can’t cuz then you’ll fuck up your makeup so then you’re teary-eyed all day until you can just let loose in the car ride home?

When was the last time you fake-laughed at a client's inappropriate gender joke and felt stupid of yourself? 😞 And how did you handle it?

My boss's boss is asking for anonymous feedback about my boss. I have things in mind to share but wondering if I should. What would you do?

I'm worried that if I share feedback, it may come across as me complaining. If you were to share, how would you fo about it?

I was molested by an older male relative for years when I was a child. I now find myself aroused by movie depictions of sexual violence. Anyone else relate? :(

Am I reading too into things? Had a zoom meeting just now. Every time I said something, no one reacted and just moved on. When other people spoke, other callers acknowledged them and smiled. I spoke 3-4 times and got the same reaction each time. This wasn’t work-related, it was a recruiting-type event. Can’t stop thinking that I might be doing something wrong without knowing it.

Anyone here in an inter-racial relationship? Would love to hear some advice on how to make it work. I’m Asian and I like a guy who is African American, but I’m concerned I might do or say something that could hurt him.