LGBTQIA+ 🐠

Any gays based in Houston-Galveston area? Visitors are welcome to connect as well! 34m. Feel free to reach out directly!

What’s a good app or place in nyc to meet other bi/les couples to make friends??

US fishes! For companies providing surrogacy assistance benefits, is the expense reimbursable if the surrogacy happened in non-US country/billed in non-US dollar? What’s your company’s policy about th… more

Do MBB pay for surrogacy for gay employees?

Visiting a female friend in Newport Beach and will have a full day alone in LA (downtown/WeHo, etc.) but have no idea what to do? I will workout at an Equinox for a bit and just use it as a base. Any itiner… more

Are there any gay NIMBY? Aren’t they awful?

Hey, I am looking for fellow lesbians to connect. 27F. Preferred age range 30-49. Feel free to DM.

Hi gays - do any of you work at Microsoft? I found a role that aligns with myself and I figured to inquire with you all about company culture and possibly being referred to the role. Thanks!

Thoughts on public instagrams? My name isn’t on my profile but my grid is nearly all pics of me in speedos or at parties… I want to go public but would it come around later when I go up for partner in… more

I am looking to find some friends preferably in the homosexual community.Its been lonely I only have my wife our son and my in laws .One friend that isn’t reliable.Are there any apps currently reside… more

Do you have experience going into gay saunas? I am planning for my first visit to one in Houston- any general/specific advice appreciated!

I’m writing an article about situations where people are dating and one of the two isnt interested in committing longterm but they say/do something insinuating that they eventually will be when they k… more

what’s (or who’s) everyone doin for NYE? Anything fun? I’m sick, but tomorrow is my 1 year sober anniversary so I’m excited for that. 🙌🏼

Anyone else surprised by DeWine’s veto? I know it ultimately means nothing because of the Republican supermajority, but it was surprising to me.

Debating on moving to Boston. How’s the dating life for an early 30s M who’s ready to settle down? Are there apps or meet ups that have worked best?

Anyone going to CLAW this year? I’ll be going for the first time, solo

What do you guys (men) normally wear to circuit parties?

Does your company have a Diversity or DEI group? If so, is your company aware and do they have regular content available for all colleagues?

Has anyone been to any MEAT Parties?

Do you think letting people know you are lgbt is negative to your career development? Sometimes people ask if I am single and this or that but I hide it.

So many gay guys on the apps are crazy. Have had a couple guys this past week threaten me for not messaging them back, or say I’m ugly… but I wasn’t “ugly” until I didn’t return your message. If someo… more

the gays will always fall in love with someone who lives 10,000 km away , like why is this always the case , where I live is drier than the sahara and would just like to have someone who lives 20 minutes away o… more

I mean. Honestly if you don’t keep initiating conversations, how can you expect me to initiate?

Would love your perspective on something. I've been speaking with a guy for ~8 weeks. Communication hasn't been consistent. I spoke with him about this, and he said he is a “see it as it goes … more

Hey, any fishies in Toronto? I’m visiting from the US in January and would love to grab something!

I would appreciate some perspective. I had a situationship with a “straight” guy. That one is over. Started to get closer to one of his friends after. The friend is straight and engaged. We became ver… more

Is anyone in a relationship now where initially one of you wasn’t ready to commit to the other? E.g., there were shared feelings but they needed more time to be free to explore love / sex freely.

Debating to move to Chicago or Minneapolis. Wondering how’s the dating life over there?

How do you manage dating someone when your salaries are wildly different? I’ve been dating a guy who lives in my home town. I’ve flown down a few times. Obviously, things like flights, hotels, car tra… more

Hey everyoneI graduated from college in December of 2022. I majored in Psychology with a minor in Africana studies. I am interested in a career in helping the black community, the LGBTQ+ community, wo… more

I’ve been hanging with this guy for about 7 months - went on a couple dates then decided to be friends. I am now maddddly in love with him, like 100% could see spending my life with him...but I don’t … more

Did anybody had to travel to non LGBTQ+ friendly countries for a client engagement ? Especially in Africa (Kenya or South Africa). Is it safe ?

Me & my best friend just admitted we’re in love with each other. We’ve hooked up a few times but it hasn’t been a core piece of our relationship thus far... we’re stuck wondering what to do if eve… more

Where do you find real love these days as a gay man?

Grindr deleted me, these other apps are equally trash, I’m over the bar/club scene.

Just wanna find a guy to build a life with - it’s all I’ve truly ever wanted.… more